Franklin Reality Model

All humans have four basic categories of needs: A person's system of beliefs constitutes that person's philosophy. Any guiding principle that provides a sense of certainty about meaning and direction in life meets the definition of a belief. Beliefs act as a person's prearranged, organized filters to his perceptions of the world. Humans form beliefs early in their lives because they are necessary for human survival. People make observations and draw conclusions that should serve them later.
Any unhealthy addictions like overeating, drinking, or smoking, that people develop as any behavior that produces short-term pleasure at the expense of long-term pain to the addict or those around the addict. Rules about what his Behavior should be in a given situation and act accordingly. He then observes the Results he produces and the Feedback given to his brain, which must determine whether the belief satisfied the believer's fundamental Needs. If the answer is "Yes," the belief gets reinforced. Otherwise, the belief erodes.
One of the natural laws this model reveals states that results take time to measure. History offers lessons to those willing to learn them. Placing widely practiced principles of the past onto the Belief Window of the Reality Model and then testing them intellectually provide instant lessons and insight into how ideas and philosophy influence history. Likewise, one can test one's Governing Values to learn whether they affirm or deny one's own unique Needs as a human being over time.
Four basic needs are to live (survival), to love and be loved, to experience variety, and to feel important.

Live
Love/be loved
Feel important > Core intentions > Actions > Results
Variety

To meet your basic need each day it has to pass through your core intentions.
Example: my need today, is to feel important to the Father in being used for His work and my intention is to pass on what I learn.
Now what action or behavior would I do to accomplish this? Take the time to do the research that I can pass on the knowledge.
After my actions comes the result over a period of time. Did you receive the information and understand it? If not maybe I need to reexamine my actions, or maybe I have to change my core intention, or rethink what my basic need was, to get my basic need meet.
One can use this model for self, or use it to understand another’s need and take the steps to help them to meet it.

David's Resolution

Ps.101 It is an excellent plan or model for the good government of a church, or the keeping up of virtue and piety, and, by that means, good order, in it: but it is applicable to private families; it is the householder's psalm. One should teach, and admonish, and engage themselves and one another to walk by the rule of it that peace may be upon them and
G-d's presence with them.
[1] I will sing of mercy and judgment: unto thee, O LORD, will I sing.
I will praise thee, O L-rd, for Thy mercy and justice, which Thou hast so eminently discovered in the government of the world, and of Thy people; and I will make it my care to copy Thee herein.
When G-d in His providence exercises us with a mixture of mercy and judgment it is our duty to sing, and sing unto Him, both of the one and of the other; we must be suitably affected with both, and make suitable acknowledgments to G-d for both.
Whatever our outward condition is, whether joyful or sorrowful, still we must give glory to G-d, and sing praises to Him; neither the laughter of a prosperous condition nor the tears of an afflicted condition must put us out of tune for sacred songs.
[2] I will behave myself wisely in a perfect way. O when wilt thou come unto me? I will walk within my house with a perfect heart.
G-d's Law prescribes a perfect way of life; in this perfect way, David has professed to walk, and David must act wisely in order to walk in it. “I can neither walk in this way, nor grow wise unto salvation, unless Thou come unto me by thy grace and Spirit; for without Thee I can do nothing.”
It is easier for most men to walk with a perfect heart in the Church, or even in the world, than in their own families. How many are as meek as lambs among others, when at home they are wasps or tigers! The man who, in the midst of family provocations, maintains a Christian character, being meek, gentle, and long-suffering to his wife, his children, has got a perfect heart, and adorns the doctrine of G-d his Savior in all things.
[3] I will set no wicked thing before mine eyes: I hate the work of them that turn aside; it shall not cleave to me.
“I will undertake no unjust wars; will enter into no sinful alliances; and what would lead me away from righteousness and truth, I will never set before my eyes.”
It is the character of a good man that he shuts his eyes from seeing evil, Isaiah 33:15. "Nay, I hate the work of those that turn aside from the paths of equity (Job 31:7), not only I avoid it, but I abhor it; it shall not cleave to me. If any blot of injustice should come on my hands, it shall be washed off quickly."
David’s further resolution was not to keep bad servants, nor to employ those about him that were vicious. David will not countenance them, nor show them any favor, lest thereby he should harden them in their wickedness, and encourage others to do like them. David will not converse with them himself, nor admit them into the company of his other employees, lest they should spread the infection of sin in his family. He will not confide in them, nor put them in power under him; for those who hated to be reformed would certainly hinder every thing that is good.
[4] A froward heart shall depart from me: I will not know a wicked person.
Rash and headstrong men shall not be employed by David.
“I will give no countenance to sinners of any kind; and whatever is evil shall be an object of my abhorrence. A froward heart (one that delights to be cross and perverse) shall depart from me, as not fit for society, the bond of which is love. I will not know," that is, "I will have no acquaintance or conversation, if I can help it, with such a wicked person; for a little of the leaven of malice and wickedness will leaven the whole lump.
I will give no countenance to sinners of any kind; and whatever is evil shall be an object of my abhorrence.”
[5] Whoso privily slandereth his neighbour, him will I cut off: him that hath an high look and a proud heart will not I suffer.
With slanderers, and those who take a pleasure in wounding their neighbor’s reputation secretly: All flatterers and time-servers, and those who by insinuations and false accusations endeavor to supplant the upright, that they may obtain their offices for themselves or their dependants, will David consider as enemies to the state, and will abominate, and expel them from his court.
He who slanders ruins both himself and him who hear him; and him who are slandered, for this is often the case; the innocent are ruined by detraction.
With haughty, conceited, ambitious people, none do more mischief in a family, in a court, in a church, for only by pride comes contention. “Therefore him that has a high look and a proud heart will I not suffer; I will have no patience with those that are still grasping at all preferment’s, who sticks at nothing to gain it; and one who behaves himself haughtily and insolently in his office. It is certain that they do not aim at doing well, but only at aggrandizing themselves and their families." G-d resists the proud, and so will David.
He that tells lies shall not tarry in David’s sight, but shall be expelled the house with indignation. Herein David was a man after G-d's own heart, for a proud look and a lying tongue are things which G-d hates; and he was also a type of Messiah, who will, in the great day, banish from his presence all that love and make a lie, Revelation 22:15.
[6] Mine eyes shall be upon the faithful of the land, that they may dwell with me: he that walketh in a perfect way, he shall serve me.
These faithful ones his eyes shall be upon, to discover them and find them out; for they were modest, lived retired in the land, in the country, out of the way of it. He that walks in a perfect way, that makes conscience of what he says and does, shall serve David.
[7] He that worketh deceit shall not dwell within my house: he that telleth lies shall not tarry in my sight.
This was a good resolution of David's; but either he did not keep to it or else his judgment was imposed upon when he made Ahithophel his right hand. It should be the care and endeavor of all masters of families, for their own sakes and their children's, to take such servants into their families as they have reason to hope fear G-d.
[8] I will early destroy all the wicked of the land; that I may cut off all wicked doers from the city of the LORD.
“All that are discovered and convicted; the Law shall have its course against them." He would do his utmost to destroy all the wicked, so that there might be none left that were notoriously wicked.
That which Davie aimed at was not only the securing of his own government and the peace of the country, but the honor of G-d in the purity of his church, “That I may cut off all wicked doers from the city of the L-rd.” Not Jerusalem only, but the whole land, was the city of the L-rd; so is the believer’s church. It is the interest of the city of the L-rd to be purged from wicked doers, who both blemish it and weaken it; and it is therefore the duty of all to do what they can, in their places, towards so good a work, and to be zealously affected in it.
In reference to the Church: The city, the seat of government, the place of G-d's altars, must be kept pure. There must be a thorough, a radical reform. No corruption or abuse, either in things political, domestic, or religious, shall be tolerated. All must be holy, as he who has called us is holy. This was a reformation according to G-d's word; not according to the caprice of the multitude.

A reason, season or lifetime

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person..
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it for it is real, but only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you for being a part of my life,
whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.
Angels exist, only sometimes they haven't got wings and we call them friends; you are one of them.

Smoke and Mirrors

Smoke And Mirrors, the father of spin is the Advisory!
He has described the public as a 'herd that needed to be led.' And this herd like thinking makes people "susceptible to leadership," from his fundamental saying to "control the masses without their knowing it," This happens with the people unaware that they are being manipulated.
We are the most conditioned, programmed beings the world has ever known. Not only are our thoughts and attitudes continually being shaped and molded; our very awareness of the whole design seems like it is being delicately and relentlessly erased.
The doors of our perception are carefully and precisely keeping pace.
If everybody believes something, it's probably wrong. I call that Conventional Wisdom. This is used with worldly products and within the body of believers, let the Preacher/Teacher do all the studying. This saves believers the trouble of researching the subjects on their own, especially on topics about which they know very little, unless you have done the research yourself, you won't be able to tell the difference. Mob psychology must focus on emotion, not facts. Since the mob is incapable of rational thought, motivation must be based not on logic but on presentation. Words are very carefully chosen for their emotional impact.
1. Trigger words are repeated all through the text, (When I was talking to G-d --)
2. It's basic word association (Scriptural word, but not actually the Scripture.)
3. Form is everything and substance just a passing myth. (Substance of His Word).
4. Speak in glittering generalities using emotionally positive words when covering something up, don't use plain English; stall for time; distract.
(Sickness – not a drunkard, or pre-marital sex not a fornicator.}
5. Get endorsements from celebrities, churches, street people - anyone who has no expertise in the subject at hand. (Do you think it is alright if we ---?)
6. When minimizing outrage, don't say anything memorable, point out the benefits of what just happened, and avoid moral issues. (Don’t step on people toes now.)
7. Dehumanize the student from thinking by labeling. (What would you know about it; for if the pastor, deacon, bishop, prophetesses said it than it must be so.)
The advisory has blind us from what the Father wanted His body to be, we have become a ‘good feeling, fellowship, social group that summarizes the Word without actually reading, teaching the Word. We are looking for signs and wonders, miracles if you please, more than obedience, instruction, and intimacy with Him found in His Word. We have missed the mark in masses, no longer are the altars being used where people cried out for the lost love ones. Let’s hurry and get this over so we can feed the flesh and talk about insufficient things.
Do you need to have your life values constantly spoon-fed to you, a necessary distraction to keep you from looking at reality, or trying to figure things out yourself by doing a little independent reading?
There's no question that as a body, we're getting dumber year by year. These activities allow access to our minds by "just anyone" - anyone who has an agenda, anyone with the resources this is the only life we get. Time is our total capital. Why waste it allowing our potential, our personality, and our values to be shaped, crafted, and limited according to the whims of the panderer?
There are many important issues that are crucial to our physical, mental, and spiritual well-being and they are all found it the Scriptures – the one place the advisory does not want you to go. ...Remember, if everybody knows something, that image has been bought and paid for, but at what price? Real knowledge takes a little effort, a little excavation down at least one level below what "everybody knows to find the truth."

I will not be inquired of by you

Then came the word of the L-rd unto Me, saying, Are you come to inquire of Me?
As I live, said the L-rd G-d, I will not be inquired of by you.
Thus said the L-rd G-d; In the day when I chose Israel, and lifted up mine hand unto the seed of the house of Jacob, that I had espied for them, flowing with milk and honey, which is the glory of all the lands:
I fashioned for My name's sake, that it should not be polluted before the heathen, And I gave them My statutes, and showed them My judgments, which if a man do, he shall even live in them. Moreover also I gave them My Sabbaths, to be a sign between them, and Me that they might know that I am the L-rd that sanctify them.
I have given you My chosen, to instruct you, have you followed their ways or adapted your own? Did I not set it all down in the Scriptures what I wanted done? Were you not adopted and grafted in to follow suit?
Now My Sabbaths are greatly polluted: then I said, I would pour out My fury upon all that have not keep it sacred, to consume them, nevertheless mine eye spared you from destroying you, neither did I make an end of you.
I am the L-rd your G-d; walk in My statutes, and keep My judgments, and do them; and hallow My Sabbaths; and you shall be a sign between Me and you, that you may know that I am the L-rd your G-d. Notwithstanding your children rebelled against Me: they walked not in My statutes, neither kept My judgments to do them, which if a man do, he shall even live in them; they polluted My Sabbaths: then I said, I would pour out My fury upon them, to accomplish My anger against them.
And I polluted them in their own gifts, in that they caused to pass through the fire all that opens the womb, that I might make them desolate, to the end that they might know that I am the L-rd. For when you offer your gifts, when you make your sons to pass through the fire, you pollute yourselves with all your idols, even unto this day: and shall I be inquired of by you. No! As I live, said the L-rd G-d, I will not be inquired of by you.
And that which comes into your mind shall not be at all, that you say, As I live, said the L-rd G-d, surely with a mighty hand, and with a stretched out arm, and with fury poured out, will I rule over you: And I will bring you out from the people, and there will I plead with you face to face. And I will cause you to pass under the rod, and I will bring you into the bond of the covenant: And I will purge out from among you the rebels, and them that transgress against Me: I will bring them forth out of the country where they sojourn. As for you, rebels, go you, serve you every one his idols, and hereafter also, if you will not hearken unto Me: but pollute you My holy name no more with your gifts, and with your idols.
All that will serve Me: there will I accept them, and there will I require your offerings, and the first fruits of your oblations, with all your holy things. I will accept you with your sweet savor, when I bring you out from the people, and gather you out of the countries wherein you have been scattered; and I will be sanctified in you before the heathen. I will not be inquired of by you unless you are mine, and following My statues.
Moreover the word of the L-rd came unto Me, saying, Hear the word of the L-rd; Thus said the L-rd G-d; Behold, I will kindle a fire in thee, and it shall devour every green tree in thee, and every dry tree: the flaming flame shall not be quenched, and all faces from the four corners shall be burned therein. And all flesh shall see that I the L-rd have kindled it: it shall not be quenched.