Despise Not

Prov. 23:22 Hearken unto thy father that begat thee, and despise not thy mother when she is old.
Prov. 1:8 My son, hear the instruction of thy father, and forsake not the law of thy mother:
Prov. 6:20 My son, keep thy father's commandment, and forsake not the law of thy mother:
Ex. 20:10 Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the L-RD thy G-d giveth thee.
Deut 5:16 Honour thy father and thy mother, as the L-RD thy G-d hath commanded thee; that thy days may be prolonged, and that it may go well with thee, in the land which the L-RD thy G-d giveth thee.
Matt. 19:19 Honour thy father and thy mother
Mark. 7:10 For Moses said, Honour thy father and thy mother; and, Whoso curseth father or mother, let him die the death:
Luke 18:20 Thou knowest the commandments, Do not commit adultery, Do not kill, Do not steal, Do not bear false witness, Honour thy father and thy mother.
Matt. 15:4 For G-d commanded, saying, Honour thy father and mother: and, He that curseth father or mother, let him die the death.
Mark 10:19 Thou knowest the commandments, Do not commit adultery, Do not kill, Do not steal, Do not bear false witness, Defraud not, Honour thy father and mother.
Eph. 6:2 Honour thy father and mother; (which is the first commandment with promise;)
Prov. 23:25 Thy father and thy mother shall be glad, and she that bare thee shall rejoice.
How many times does G-d have to repeat Himself before one sees it is a command not a choice?
The times that were foretold long ago are starting now:
Micah 7:6 For the son dishonoureth the father, the daughter riseth up against her mother, the daughter in law against her mother in law; a man's enemies are the men of his own house.
Luke 12:53 The father shall be divided against the son, and the son against the father; the mother against the daughter, and the daughter against the mother; the mother in law against her daughter in law, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.
Love, honour, and respect are slowing disappearing, children think they can instruct the parents and do not value all that was sacrificed for them.
If you encourage them with advice from your past experiences it is called judging.
If you give them everything they wanted, it is your fault they can not do without.
If you give them presents, it is expected for you owe them since you gave them life.
Children have become takers that never feel like they have to give anything back, after all they are struggling to make a life for themselves – was life easer for you?
Surprisingly they manage to have nice things for themselves or their family and you can count on a great explanation why they needed it and you don’t, and they can't afford to pay you back on at the scedual time and amount.
In ones old age, parents use to look toward to the children in helping were they can no longer function, and it was natural to want too return all that was done for them.
But the Good Book says the day was coming were children will despise them for asking, and the natural love will be over, for it will be every man for themselves.
I thought it would be in my great-great grandchildren’s day but it is much sooner than we think. The world will not be as we remembered it, and change is not always for the better.
People show who they are -----why don't we believe them the first time? Only G-d can change them.

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Parents asked what have they done to be treated with disrespect, it is not treating them that way, but letting them know your limits in a way they understand and will accept.

Anonymous said...

Wow, i know what your sayining! My daughter has not spoken to me in years and when I called my granddaughter to develop a relationship with - she said she did not have time to spend with me. You give all the love you have and they slap you in the face! it is hurtful

Anonymous said...

Hey Seasoned Warrior , You will never know how much this word applies to my life right now with my youngest . But it sure puts things into prospective!! Thanks !!! signed Seasoned Veteran!!!

Anonymous said...

Some of my children have choice an alternate life style and we have not had a relationship since.
There comes a time when each has to stand up for what they beleive in and turn our children over in to God's hands.

Anonymous said...

Thanks for bringing it to light!
We have been having problems with out youngest daughter, nothing we do seems to help!
She bulks our every move, states she wants to live her own life regardless of what she has been taught, very very disresptable to us.
We are frustrated for she is only 16 - you have shown what could be going on. Guess there comes a time when our children have to stand accountable for their own choices.

Anonymous said...

One of my daughters has moved back home with me, bringing her children with her.
She has made alot of bad choices in life, and Christians say I am enabling her by always trying to pick up the pieces.
I feel caught between and it is affecting my health.
My children know better have have gone astray -- my only hope is the scripture that says "train up a child in the way they should go and they will not depart".
I am trusting God to bring them all back before it is too late.